The More Facebook Friends You Have, the More Unhappy You Are

22 Mar 2012 10:08 #1 by ScienceChic
Do you know anyone who fits this bill? Is there a difference between people who use it to network for business as well as personal relationships with those who only try to collect "friends", or does it not matter?

The More Facebook Friends You Have, the More Unhappy You Probably Are
By Whitson Gordon
Mar 21, 2012

A new study has discovered a direct link between the number of friends you have on Facebook and how much of a "socially disruptive narcissist" you are—giving us one more reason to tone down our Facebook addictions.

Researchers at Western Illinois studied 294 college students and found that those with more friends on Facebook tended to score higher on the Narcissistic Personality Inventory questionnaire. They tended to respond more aggressively to comments, change their profile pictures more often, and updated their news feeds more regularly than others.


"Now, more than ever, the illusions of division threaten our very existence. We all know the truth: more connects us than separates us. But in times of crisis the wise build bridges, while the foolish build barriers. We must find a way to look after one another as if we were one single tribe.” -King T'Challa, Black Panther

The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it. ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is. ~Winston Churchill

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22 Mar 2012 14:55 #2 by FredHayek
The principle of always wanting more, more items, more friends to fill a hole inside yourself?

I could go along with that, but I also like the idea of when you see your friends showing off their new homes or new cars, checking in at gourmet restaurants, you feel like you are falling behind.

Of course some of my friends are such basket cases mentally and financially, that it makes me feel pretty well about my current situation.

Checking in at the thrift store,
Buying a "new" 1987 Yugo,
Ranting about their significant other,

Thomas Sowell: There are no solutions, just trade-offs.

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22 Mar 2012 16:11 #3 by Grady

FredHayek wrote: The principle of always wanting more, more items, more friends to fill a hole inside yourself?

I could go along with that, but I also like the idea of when you see your friends showing off their new homes or new cars, checking in at gourmet restaurants, you feel like you are falling behind.

Of course some of my friends are such basket cases mentally and financially, that it makes me feel pretty well about my current situation.

Checking in at the thrift store,
Buying a "new" 1987 Yugo,
Ranting about their significant other,

:like:

And the Farmville, Mafia Wars etc players

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22 Mar 2012 17:50 #4 by cydl
Attachment to "things" and ego and prestige are the biggest problems we humans have. If happiness doesn't come from within it won't happen at all. IMO, of course!

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23 Mar 2012 20:29 #5 by CC
Geeez.... sorta feels like a crusade against Facebook here today.

I really enjoy Facebook. It keeps in touch with friends that are far away. I get to see instant pics and videos of my grandkids.

I read tons of funny stuff from lot's of friends. I make great business contacts on FB.

I privately play a few games but don't send requests to any of my friends nor do I post my latest achievements on those games.

I love Facebook.

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24 Mar 2012 07:45 #6 by 2wlady
I must be the happiest person in the world, then!!!!!

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24 Mar 2012 08:23 #7 by CC
lol 2wlady
I guess I just don't have a lot of secrets or information about me that I feel I need to hide from folks.

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24 Mar 2012 08:32 #8 by LOL
I have always used email reply to all, to keep up with friends and family, share pictures, links etc. Works fine for me, I have nothing against Facebook, just find email easier and not everyone is on Facebook, but everyone has email.

If you want to be, press one. If you want not to be, press 2

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24 Mar 2012 08:42 #9 by Photo-fish
That's it! I'm un-friending all of you. Hope that makes us ALL a little bit happier. :biggrin:

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24 Mar 2012 10:13 #10 by Rockdoc

Joe wrote: I have always used email reply to all, to keep up with friends and family, share pictures, links etc. Works fine for me, I have nothing against Facebook, just find email easier and not everyone is on Facebook, but everyone has email.


That is great if all your family and friends have good internet connections. Some family members use such antiquated computers and dial up connections (StilL!!!!) that sharing of pictures leads to complaints or unread e-mail.

Fb like everything else in life is what you make it and allow it to be. I find it useful for instant messaging when I'm away from home. It's also nice to follow the activities of friends. I see no need to be envious, or try to keep up, etc. It's simply a means of communication and that makes me happy.

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