archer wrote: For those of us who did grow up in those "simple times".....they didn't seem so simple then.....only in retrospect.
Sorry for the childhood you might have had, but even though we had no money, worked for several hours a day before and after school to help on the farm, made many gifts, and ate what we grew, those were some of the best and simplest times of my life. I would take them back over all the technology of today in a heartbeat!
Stop making assumptions Viking (though you are awfully good at that) I had as close to an idyllic childhood as I can possibly think of, But I wouldn't say it was simple, just different. I'm sorry your present is so unsatisfying that you would yearn for times past.......
I loved the time I grew up in, and I love the time I am living in now.....sure they are different, but I cannot say that one is better or worse than the other....just different.
I am always amused by those who would go back to "the good old days", someday these times will be the good old days too.....every time is special in it's own way, but I love what this time in my life has to offer!
archer wrote: Stop making assumptions Viking (though you are awfully good at that) I had as close to an idyllic childhood as I can possibly think of, But I wouldn't say it was simple, just different. I'm sorry your present is so unsatisfying that you would yearn for times past.......
I loved the time I grew up in, and I love the time I am living in now.....sure they are different, but I cannot say that one is better or worse than the other....just different.
I am always amused by those who would go back to "the good old days", someday these times will be the good old days too.....every time is special in it's own way, but I love what this time in my life has to offer!
I wasn't assuming anything. I am glad you had a great childhood. Your previous post just made it sound like it wasn't that great. I am glad you had a near idyllic childhood. And my life right now is really great but I loved the simpler times of the small town country life growing up where we appreciated everything and didn't need electronics to keep us entertained.
I always wonder if times seem simpler in the past merely because they were simpler times, or if it's because kids themselves have less responsibility and awareness of what's going on so it seems better...and if adults looking back are doing so selectively, forgetting what was hard and unpleasant...
There are parts of my childhood that I really appreciate and parts that I wish had never happened, and parts of my life now that I really appreciate and parts that I wish I didn't have to deal with, but it's life. My appreciation comes from within myself, not because of, or in spite of, what's happening externally in the world. Whatever I don't like or appreciate, I try to change, not let bother me, or remove myself from - life's too short to stay unhappy, stressed, or angry.
AV8OR - I hear you on that! My kids have to address their instructors in Taekwondo that way, and I'm trying harder to use it more myself as well so as to be a good example. It's such a quick and easy way to express respect and consideration for others.
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