The most probable discouragement for men with regard to sex is the physical condition of their woman. Observation of women as they age makes one conclude that obesity is a goal. Women wear themselves out sexually whenever they are young and atractive and then expect the man with which they settled to be carnally interested whenever the woman does not keep herself attractive.
Another reason is that woman disregard romance in deference for casual sex whenever they are young. Men do not have romantic feelings for a woman that they do not respect and nor view as precious. If the relationship was based upon sexual desire, devoid of love and romance, then expecting romance is futile.
The "hots" does not last forever. Whenever the man turns to porn, he is searching to rekindle lust. He will never lust for the ill-kept fat woman who shares his bed. Will he turn to romance? Not a chance!
Take a look at the picture in the initial post. Is this woman trying to keep the fire alive? Her appearance does not hint that she is trying to interest her mate. Her disapproval and appearance kills her mate's libido.
Okay, you want some advice from a girl, here you go.
Okay, you want some advice from a girl, here you go.
Men, generally, are turned on by seeing someone they love (lust after). Women generally, get turned on by imagining and words. It does not happen quickly for us. So, start it early in the day. Make her feel safe to be sexual with you, not feel like a tramp (in your eyes) and make her feel special. Make her think about you all day and that you cannot wait to be with her (later in the day) Seduce her through out the day with text messages or notes or calls in a not creepy porn way (romantic).
I guarantee you will have a great night. It takes a little work and time (not cumulatively) you just have to let her know you are thinking about her and she will do anything for you. If you want the porn experience. Quick and easy, You can find them but let's hope you dont' catch something because you are not going to be her only one.
I personally think men and women who are used to the FWB experience or porn experience have not experienced some real caring from someone that thinks you are their hero.
If you are married. I bet this will work for you. V day is coming up, if you do this through the day and act like you thought about doing this long before VDay. To her that means you were thinking about her for days (even if you weren't). OMG. that is almost impossible for us to resist. And she will do anything for you. Doesn't that sound alot better than porn?
Try it. Don't do it the way a guy thinks about it, that does not do it for women. Yes, this was general.
I am betting 95% of men don't have porn messing up their relationships, but those 5%r's are another story.
And porn is killing men's libido because their mates don't live up to porn stars in looks or techniques? This article must not have interviewed my randy friends who will pretty much sleep with any woman who will have them. Irony, a couple of them are porn fiends who attend the Vegas pr0n convention annually.
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I think y'all are making a big deal about it, most guys I know l understand its not reality, laugh and make crude remarks and get over it, 99% are not permanently screwed up by it. Its a bit over done and over-analyzed like everything else. Perhaps a $100M Federal study is needed, I'll volunteer and report back!
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CinnamonGirl wrote: Okay, you want some advice from a girl, here you go.
Men, generally, are turned on by seeing someone they love (lust after). Women generally, get turned on by imagining and words. It does not happen quickly for us. So, start it early in the day. Make her feel safe to be sexual with you, not feel like a tramp (in your eyes) and make her feel special. Make her think about you all day and that you cannot wait to be with her (later in the day) Seduce her through out the day with text messages or notes or calls in a not creepy porn way (romantic).
I guarantee you will have a great night. It takes a little work and time (not cumulatively) you just have to let her know you are thinking about her and she will do anything for you. If you want the porn experience. Quick and easy, You can find them but let's hope you dont' catch something because you are not going to be her only one.
I personally think men and women who are used to the FWB experience or porn experience have not experienced some real caring from someone that thinks you are their hero.
If you are married. I bet this will work for you. V day is coming up, if you do this through the day and act like you thought about doing this long before VDay. To her that means you were thinking about her for days (even if you weren't). OMG. that is almost impossible for us to resist. And she will do anything for you. Doesn't that sound alot better than porn?
Try it. Don't do it the way a guy thinks about it, that does not do it for women. Yes, this was general.
Great advice, I've been married 18 years and I know what you are talking about. I don't claim to know half of what goes on in a womans brain, but I do know that making her feel special and wanted is the best way to keep things exciting. I often kick myself for forgetting this.
I also think I'm one of the lucky few who can no longer fantasize about anyone but my wife. Over time I've come to realize that my wife is much more than I deserve and a fantasy could never come close to what she does for me.
This article must not have interviewed my randy friends who will pretty much sleep with any woman who will have them. Irony, a couple of them are porn fiends who attend the Vegas pr0n convention annually. 
