It may be gratifying for women to see their husbands loading the dishwasher or folding laundry, but is it sexy? Yes, according to many media stories. “Men: Want More Sex? Do the Laundry” was headline of a 2009 report from CBS News. According to Naomi Wolf, “research has shown that the most erotic thing a man can do for a woman is the dishes.” Sheryl Sandberg, the author of Lean In, agrees. “Nothing is sexier” she says, than a man who wants to do his share of the housework. “It may be counterintuitive,” writes Sandberg, “but the best way for a man to make a pass at his wife is to do the dishes.” Sandberg urges readers to check out a “fabulous little book” called Porn for Women produced by the Cambridge Women’s Pornography Cooperative. It is full of images of hunky guys vacuuming, dusting, and cleaning the kitty litter.
But now a new study in the American Sociological Review casts doubt on the truth of this happy feminist idyll. Men routinely doing “female” chores appear to have less—not more—sex. According to the authors, Sabino Kornrich (Center for Advanced Studies in the Social Sciences, Madrid), Julie Brines (University of Washington), and Katrina Leupp (University of Washington): "...................
Maybe women want to have sex with alpha males instead of some wimp in an apron wearing yellow rubber gloves? Like the way "bad boys" get all the girls.
Thomas Sowell: There are no solutions, just trade-offs.
I'll have to disagree with this one. The more I help around the house the better my chances are.
Women have a hard time getting in the mood if there is stuff left unfinished that needs to be done. If I can make dinner, clean up the dishes and get the laundry done she will have some extra time to relax. I am the beneficiary of that.
Must be the French Maid outfit and the feather duster, I find it disturbing that women's clothes come in my size...
I can explain it to you but I can't understand it for you.
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