They make it seem like it is a sports contest. Stacking the deck to win?? Perhaps this is a case of poor volabulary choices, but personally, I never thought of dating as a contest. (I can see why one might look at it that way) My view is that if I find the perfect gal,
The lyrics of one boy one girl come to mind:
.......
When she walked in their eyes met
and they both stared
And right there and then everyone else disappeared but
Chorus:
One boy, one girl, two hearts beating wildly
To put it mildly it was love at first sight
He smiled, she smiled, and they knew right away
This was the day they'd waited for all their lives
And for a moment the whole world revolved
Around one boy and one girl
Very true it seems like they make it into a science. But I have to say love and relationships are still very confusing to me. I never got how it works.
It seems to me we need to bring use some logic into the feeling part of it. There is some timing involved I guess. Following just my heart has gotten me into trouble before. LOL
