ComputerBreath wrote: Most people can't even name the emotions...I learned there are six: Lonely (this one is disputed, but it is what I learned), Sad, Happy, Fear, Anger, & Shame...and it took a lot of counseling for me to be able to say how I was feeling versus what I was thinking.
I also learned which parts of the body each of these emotions will affect and what happens when someone in a group setting doesn't feel the emotion that is there.
And the two most important things I learned...no one can "make" you feel...saying someone makes you sad or angry gives up your own power to someone else. Also, feelings/emotions are not good or bad, negative or positive...they just are.
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LA: When I was at the beginning stages of my "re-learning" about emotions during group counseling sessions, I was given the opportunity to take a full session and relate what to me was a "story"...but it was real and happened to me. I was told to stop telling my story about 5 minutes into it and then the group facilitator asked the other group members what they felt and saw as I was relating this story. For 16 years I had related it the same way...as if telling a fairy-tale or reading a children's horror story. I was also asked what I was feeling and where. This was the first time I had ever been given the chance to figure out where on my body I was feeling what I was feeling. It was quite enlightening.LopingAlong wrote:
ComputerBreath wrote: Most people can't even name the emotions...I learned there are six: Lonely (this one is disputed, but it is what I learned), Sad, Happy, Fear, Anger, & Shame...and it took a lot of counseling for me to be able to say how I was feeling versus what I was thinking.
I also learned which parts of the body each of these emotions will affect and what happens when someone in a group setting doesn't feel the emotion that is there.
And the two most important things I learned...no one can "make" you feel...saying someone makes you sad or angry gives up your own power to someone else. Also, feelings/emotions are not good or bad, negative or positive...they just are.
CB, could you share with us what you learned regarding which body parts each emotion will affect? Or where the info is so I could read it? And by any chance, is there anything written about the emotion that we feel when we feel Love? You know, that serene that fills you and makes you focus on only the being that you are loving? Not sure that makes sense, but it is an emotion (I think) that I've never heard a name for. Happy comes closest, but there's more to it.
Thanks in advance!
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