Contradictions, Connections, and Tension from Joss Whedon

27 May 2013 10:36 - 23 Jan 2017 11:29 #1 by ScienceChic
I'm gonna start this thread off with a request: read the entire address, not just the little teaser I quoted below. tongue: This is a thread in which I hope to have a good, thoughtful debate about our connections, tensions, and contradictions, and the gift or curse that you think they are, and how they can be the source of our solutions or problems.

If you've seen anything I've posted in the Mountains of Entertainment forum , you know I adore this man and his vision/ideas/thoughts/perspective.
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Today Joss received an honorary degree and delivered the commencement speech at his alma mater, Wesleyan University (class of '87). He starts out by telling everyone they're going to die. That's our Joss! -Salena

(I smiled at that, and his comment that someone really should get Robert Frost's body off of the path less traveled-who else would dare say that at a college commencement address?) :biggrin:

Whedon ’87 Delivers 181st Commencement Address
May. 26, 2013 by Lauren Rubenstein

The thing about our country is—oh, it’s nice, I like it—it’s not long on contradiction or ambiguity. It likes things to be simple, it likes things to be pigeonholed—good or bad, black or white, blue or red. And we’re not that. We’re more interesting than that. And the way that we go into the world understanding is to have these contradictions in ourselves and see them in other people and not judge them for it. <snip> The only way really to understand your position and its worth is to understand the opposite. That doesn’t mean the crazy guy on the radio who is spewing hate, it means the decent human truths of all the people who feel the need to listen to that guy. You are connected to those people. They’re connected to him.

This connection is part of contradiction. It is the tension I was talking about. This tension isn’t about two opposite points, it’s about the line in between them, and it’s being stretched by them. We need to acknowledge and honor that tension, and the connection that that tension is a part of. Our connection not just to the people we love, but to everybody, including people we can’t stand and wish weren’t around. The connection we have is part of what defines us on such a basic level.

Freedom is not freedom from connection. Serial killing is freedom from connection. But we as people never do, and we’re not supposed to, and we shouldn’t want to.

Do you think that the tension between our connections is our greatest gift, or the fact that we have such tensions going to cause our downfall because we cannot overcome them to focus on the future and greater good?
Or is the Greater Good just a communist ideal and our individualism our strength?
Can we do more if we do it together, or alone?
It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it. ~Aristotle
Are we as a population capable of this in a great enough number to compromise on solutions and make life better, or have we become too entrenched in our own personal beliefs to do anything but dig in and self-destruct at this point?

:Thanks:

"Now, more than ever, the illusions of division threaten our very existence. We all know the truth: more connects us than separates us. But in times of crisis the wise build bridges, while the foolish build barriers. We must find a way to look after one another as if we were one single tribe.” -King T'Challa, Black Panther

The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it. ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is. ~Winston Churchill

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27 May 2013 11:06 #2 by Reverend Revelant
Here's the money quote as far as I'm concerned...

"Freedom is not freedom from connection. Serial killing is freedom from connection. Certain large investment firms have established freedom from connection."

Including "serial killing" and "investment firms" in the same thought shows you most of his crap is tripe. (and yes... I did read the whole speech)

And why did you edit out "Certain large investment firms have established freedom from connection" from your "quote" above?

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27 May 2013 11:54 #3 by ScienceChic
I edited out a bunch of sentences TLGT, all to make sure I was following Fair Use Guidelines and to keep people from glazing over and skipping the post entirely because there was too much text. Not for any other reason or agenda, but I appreciate you asking so I could clarify.

Why do you think that that one quote indicates that most of his crap is tripe. What of his crap isn't?

Serial killers feel no empathy or sympathy with other human beings, the portions of the brain that are activated in most people when identifying with others' emotions do not even fire in theirs which is why they do what they do - they feel pleasure only at what they do themselves, no satisfaction derived from others' accomplishments.

As the people who are involved in the OWS movement attest, investment entities and other corporations have become so divorced from the people they serve that they don't care that what they do harms them - that too can be argued that it's pathological as it does eventually harm the economy and them in return but it's not immediate so there's no cause/effect behavior modification. Sure, there are plenty of organizations that do not operate thusly, but considering the ill health of our economy and the increasing income disparity between the top and bottom, I don't think anyone can argue that the balance is in our favor right now.

I am curious as to why you chose not to address the concept of being connected, even to those you can't stand. We all obviously are, or we wouldn't even bother participating here. Why do you post here?

We have much more in common than not. Our founding fathers came from widely varying backgrounds, some couldn't even stand one another, yet they came together, put aside personal beliefs as necessary, and compromised for the good of the nation. Are we incapable of that now? Has technology made us so divorced from each other, and from nature itself, that we've lost our way or will technology be our salvation?

"Now, more than ever, the illusions of division threaten our very existence. We all know the truth: more connects us than separates us. But in times of crisis the wise build bridges, while the foolish build barriers. We must find a way to look after one another as if we were one single tribe.” -King T'Challa, Black Panther

The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it. ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is. ~Winston Churchill

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27 May 2013 12:00 #4 by Reverend Revelant
You edited out the middle of a statement from him... that's "fair use?" You either quote a paragraph, a statement or a sentence in full... with the thoughts context. You do not take out a sentence in the middle of a statement (especially only 9 words).

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27 May 2013 18:47 #5 by homeagain
PERHAPS, the question can be answered in a more concise way..."We are here to awaken from the illusion of our separateness"...
Thich Nhat Hanh...

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28 May 2013 13:34 #6 by ScienceChic
Ok, so is there that huge of a difference between this:

Freedom is not freedom from connection. Serial killing is freedom from connection. Certain large investment firms have established freedom from connection. But we as people never do, and we’re not supposed to, and we shouldn’t want to. We are individuals, obviously, but we are more than that.


and this:

Freedom is not freedom from connection. Serial killing is freedom from connection. But we as people never do, and we’re not supposed to, and we shouldn’t want to.


The point of his speech was not a condemnation of certain large investment firms, it was about how we are all connected, whether we like it or not, and that those connections are a gift. I edited out the portion about investment firms and left the rest pertaining to humans. I do not believe that I changed the intent of his message in any way, and I specifically asked that everyone please read the entire speech so I wasn't trying to hide anything. If you want to nitpick that one line omission, fine by me but you are missing the point of the entire speech and ignoring my request at the beginning of the thread, and I thought you especially would appreciate the topic. :)

Anyone else have any thoughts?

"Now, more than ever, the illusions of division threaten our very existence. We all know the truth: more connects us than separates us. But in times of crisis the wise build bridges, while the foolish build barriers. We must find a way to look after one another as if we were one single tribe.” -King T'Challa, Black Panther

The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it. ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is. ~Winston Churchill

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28 May 2013 17:26 #7 by PrintSmith

Science Chic wrote: Do you think that the tension between our connections is our greatest gift, or the fact that we have such tensions going to cause our downfall because we cannot overcome them to focus on the future and greater good?
Or is the Greater Good just a communist ideal and our individualism our strength?
Can we do more if we do it together, or alone?
[font=Comic Sans MS:2y6bvgvc]It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it. ~Aristotle[/font:2y6bvgvc]
Are we as a population capable of this in a great enough number to compromise on solutions and make life better, or have we become too entrenched in our own personal beliefs to do anything but dig in and self-destruct at this point?

:Thanks:

The "greater good" is a collectivist ideal, it has never been anything but a collectivist ideal - usually used to enslave rather than emancipate by those employing the phrase.

Yes, it is possible, in most instances, to achieve more when working together than it is when working individually. A barn is raised much faster when the whole community shows up to raise the barn than it can be when one individual is doing all the work. Individualism, however, is still our greatest strength. Joining together because we decide, individually, to work together is quite different from someone rounding up everyone in the community and using force to get them to where the barn is being raised, which appears to be the favored tactic of the federal government over the course of the last century, which is why we are in the mess we are in at the moment.

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28 May 2013 19:46 #8 by Rick

PrintSmith wrote:

Science Chic wrote: Do you think that the tension between our connections is our greatest gift, or the fact that we have such tensions going to cause our downfall because we cannot overcome them to focus on the future and greater good?
Or is the Greater Good just a communist ideal and our individualism our strength?
Can we do more if we do it together, or alone?
[font=Comic Sans MS:2ebt4316]It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it. ~Aristotle[/font:2ebt4316]
Are we as a population capable of this in a great enough number to compromise on solutions and make life better, or have we become too entrenched in our own personal beliefs to do anything but dig in and self-destruct at this point?

:Thanks:

The "greater good" is a collectivist ideal, it has never been anything but a collectivist ideal - usually used to enslave rather than emancipate by those employing the phrase.

Yes, it is possible, in most instances, to achieve more when working together than it is when working individually. A barn is raised much faster when the whole community shows up to raise the barn than it can be when one individual is doing all the work. Individualism, however, is still our greatest strength. Joining together because we decide, individually, to work together is quite different from someone rounding up everyone in the community and using force to get them to where the barn is being raised, which appears to be the favored tactic of the federal government over the course of the last century, which is why we are in the mess we are in at the moment.

Good points PS.

The left is angry because they are now being judged by the content of their character and not by the color of their skin.

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31 May 2013 07:38 #9 by Reverend Revelant

Science Chic wrote:
[snip]

Anyone else have any thoughts?


Sure. I'm not sure if Whedon believes he is some great philosopher or something... but his pointing out that connections are important seems trite and obvious (and I'm not sure why he felt it necessary to tell college graduates that "fact"... I would hope that education young men and women would have gotten that clue a LONG time ago).

That aside... I've never felt anything but a connection to my fellow travelers on this planet. And I see that connection as needed, important and a absolute necessity. Here's an example of "greater good." Since I came to Colorado in 1989, I have help manage 2 live theatres and was instrumental in starting an award winning live theatre from the ground up. In all those cases I did what I did, without compensation, for the "greater good."

But I am not interested in the "greater good" when it is part of the mantra of progressive politics. "Greater good" is frequently a code world for more centralized government, overly socialized public programs, concepts and ideas that I feel go against the moral fabric of humanity and something, when played out to it's fullest... can lead to authoritarian control by politicians and the political elite.

And of course, in my dealings with theatre folk... actors, technicians, artistic directors... I come across a lot of progressive leaning politics. I don't support those "greater good" principals, when taken in that political direction... and I will fight to prevent that from becoming the predominate political ideology in our country.

So connections are important, and we certainly can't get along without them. But I make and nurture those connections because as an individual I WANT to... and I see a "greater good" when we work together in certain endeavors. And I don't need any nanny's telling me how to do this... it comes natural to me.

So... what the hell is the point in his commencement speech. Is it a political message or altruistic?

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