How normal people deal with bullying

15 Mar 2011 19:24 #11 by CinnamonGirl
Replied by CinnamonGirl on topic How normal people deal with bullying

Baileyboy wrote:

PrintSmith wrote: And if you continue to bully people boy, the same might happen to you one day. That's why I'm trying to help you leave your adolescent behavior, which is the result of your stunted emotional development, behind you such that you can enter the fellowship of adults and rise to the level where you can properly be seen as a man instead of a petulant child your behavior indicates you to be.


Does everything pass over your head like the Concorde in cruise mode? Yup, it does. You are far to impressed with hot air, namely your own.
One thing that you have proven here is that you have the acumen of an ant, which probably accounts for your inability to discuss anything except you. Self adoration is no virtue girl. It is an anchor that no one else cares about or cares to be around.



BB I wonder why you have no arguments just insults? Weak mind?

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15 Mar 2011 19:28 #12 by archer

archer wrote: I'm sorry, I was unaware that there is a rule at 285Bound that you cannot comment on topics unless you start one. Since you have been here only a couple months how dod you know how many I have....or have not....started?????

I actually used to start topics on local message boards until the first response was always a personal attack from the conservative gang. So tell me, how many topics must I start before I get my commenting privileges back?????/

You, of course, missed my point.....that the bullying of homosexuals has often been much more heinous than the average bullying that goes on in school.......that is why they need some extra assistance....but you don't seem to think so, so be it.

I can only judge what you may, or may not, teach kids by your opinions expressed here.....you expressed the opinion that bullying is normal.

trouble wrote: Everyone gets bullied at some point in their life whether as a child or an adult. Their agenda makes me want to . They need to woman-up (or is it man-up?) and deal with it like the rest of us.

Back to the OP. That's exactly how I taught my kids to deal with bullies which taught them to fend for themselves as adults.


you explain how you tell your kids to man up and deal with the bullies, you did not say what you teach your kids about being the bully.....that's why I asked.


I guess I can't ask questions either because I didn't "start" enough threads. I'll have to ask the mods here what the magic number of started threads is to be able to comment.....I'll go now and add up how many I started and see if I qualify.

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15 Mar 2011 19:33 - 15 Mar 2011 19:36 #13 by Residenttroll returns
How does a bully get away starting an anti-bullying program?

stopbullying.gov <<<< ARE YOU KIDDIN' ME.....

We need.....

stopstupidity.gov and stopperverts.gov

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15 Mar 2011 19:35 #14 by CinnamonGirl
Replied by CinnamonGirl on topic How normal people deal with bullying
Of course we have to deal with bullying but that does not mean we should condone it. Especially for our children. We are examples. I never understood why people don't dislike it and don't say anything but my biggest problems is the teachers and adults that watch it and do nothing in our schools and otherwise.

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15 Mar 2011 19:39 #15 by archer

residenttroll wrote: How does a bully get away starting an anti-bullying program?

stopbullying.gov <<<< ARE YOU KIDDIN' ME.....

We need.....

stopstupidity.gov and stopperverts.gov


I agree....but we can accomplish both of those with a stopconservatives.gov.

:wink: :jk2: sorta

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15 Mar 2011 19:45 #16 by Residenttroll returns

archer wrote:

residenttroll wrote: How does a bully get away starting an anti-bullying program?

stopbullying.gov <<<< ARE YOU KIDDIN' ME.....

We need.....

stopstupidity.gov and stopperverts.gov


I agree....but we can accomplish both of those with a stopconservatives.gov.

:wink: :jk2: sorta


Stop the bullying Archer....I am going to report you to the stopbullying.gov website. I'm not kidding either.

By the way, you already have stopconservatives.gov. ...if can be found at whitehouse.gov.

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15 Mar 2011 20:39 #17 by Obam me
Replied by Obam me on topic How normal people deal with bullying

archer wrote: I'm sorry, I was unaware that there is a rule at 285Bound that you canno0t comment on topics unless you start one. I actually used to start topics on local message boards until the first response was always a personal attack from the conservative gang. So tell me, how many topics must I start before I get my commenting privileges back?????/

Just kidding there Archer...


You, of course, missed my point.....that the bullying of homosexuals has often been much more heinous than the average bullying that goes on in school.......that is why they need some extra assistance....but you don't seem to think so, so be it.

The ones that deserve special protections are those who have mental and/or physical disabilities and the elderly; otherwise it should be equal protection without special regard to race, gender, sexual orientation, etc. JMTCW.


I can only judge what you may, or may not, teach kids by your opinions expressed here.....you expressed the opinion that bullying is normal.

Saying bullying is normal is not saying it's OK or that I condone it.


you explain how you tell your kids to man up and deal with the bullies, you did not say what you teach your kids about being the bully.....that's why I asked.


My kids spent Saturday's volunteering with me at the local nursing home. I'll never forget watching my youngest, barely tall enough to reach over the table, lifting a spoonful of birthday cake and ice cream to help those that couldn't feed themselves. This is not the making of a bully. Quite the opposite. Teaching them to serve others was the best anit-bully lesson I could teach them. But they also knew they had my permission to defend themselves if there were picked on once they were old enough; otherwise the bully had to answer directly to me.

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15 Mar 2011 21:07 #18 by archer
Thanks for the answers/explanations trouble....that's all I was looking for. They are quite different in tone than your earlier post and I appreciate the effort to explain.

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15 Mar 2011 21:52 #19 by Mayhem

CinnamonGirl wrote:



BB I wonder why you have no arguments just insults? Weak mind?


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16 Mar 2011 06:52 #20 by TPP
This is how you deal with bullys...
Kid bodyslams bully, becomes instant Web hero

The same brief clip has been uploaded over and over on the Web: A scrawny bully sucker punches a larger chunkier boy multiple times, as other kids look on, some... taunting. Then suddenly, with the speed and agility of an alligator, the victim responds, flipping the kid and bodyslamming him. Bully neutralized. Cue the Facebook hero worship.

http://technolog.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2011/03/15/6275007-kid-bodyslams-bully-becomes-instant-web-hero

It's how I dealth with them, and it's how I got dealth with!

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