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PrintSmith wrote: Marriage is not a right, never has been. It is, and always has always been, a restricted privilege. There have always been laws which restrict who may marry - some of them good, some of them not so good, but civil society has always restricted access to marriage for a variety of reasons and it will continue to do so.
Bear is right here. The very same arguments used to claim that rights are being denied if homosexuals aren't allowed to be married are valid to claim that rights are being denied if polygamy isn't allowed. If I indeed have a basic human right to marry the person of my choosing and have it recognized by the government for the purposes of property rights and government benefits, then denying me the ability to choose to whom, or to how many, I am married to, for any reason, is a violation of that basic human right. I can make an argument that denying access to marriage for more than two people violates the constitutional prohibition against laws which restrict the free exercise of religion given the historical reality that certain sects within the Mormon religion and the Islamic religion, not to mention numerous Native American Tribes, have included polygamy within what the religion or the culture allows within its canon and traditions.
This is not a matter of civil rights - marriage has never been a right, it has always been a restricted privilege in our laws, customs and traditions. Saying that one has a fundamental human right to be married to the person of their choosing means that there is a basic human right to marry one's sibling, or their parent or their first cousin if that is what they desire to do that would also have to be allowed. The logic isn't there folks, nor is the history of the law - marriage is, and always has been, a restricted privilege, not a right.
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PrintSmith wrote: Marriage is not a right, never has been. It is, and always has always been, a restricted privilege. There have always been laws which restrict who may marry - some of them good, some of them not so good, but civil society has always restricted access to marriage for a variety of reasons and it will continue to do so.
Bear is right here. The very same arguments used to claim that rights are being denied if homosexuals aren't allowed to be married are valid to claim that rights are being denied if polygamy isn't allowed. If I indeed have a basic human right to marry the person of my choosing and have it recognized by the government for the purposes of property rights and government benefits, then denying me the ability to choose to whom, or to how many, I am married to, for any reason, is a violation of that basic human right. I can make an argument that denying access to marriage for more than two people violates the constitutional prohibition against laws which restrict the free exercise of religion given the historical reality that certain sects within the Mormon religion and the Islamic religion, not to mention numerous Native American Tribes, have included polygamy within what the religion or the culture allows within its canon and traditions.
This is not a matter of civil rights - marriage has never been a right, it has always been a restricted privilege in our laws, customs and traditions. Saying that one has a fundamental human right to be married to the person of their choosing means that there is a basic human right to marry one's sibling, or their parent or their first cousin if that is what they desire to do that would also have to be allowed. The logic isn't there folks, nor is the history of the law - marriage is, and always has been, a restricted privilege, not a right.
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BearMtnHIB wrote:
PrintSmith wrote: Marriage is not a right, never has been. It is, and always has always been, a restricted privilege. There have always been laws which restrict who may marry - some of them good, some of them not so good, but civil society has always restricted access to marriage for a variety of reasons and it will continue to do so.
Bear is right here. The very same arguments used to claim that rights are being denied if homosexuals aren't allowed to be married are valid to claim that rights are being denied if polygamy isn't allowed. If I indeed have a basic human right to marry the person of my choosing and have it recognized by the government for the purposes of property rights and government benefits, then denying me the ability to choose to whom, or to how many, I am married to, for any reason, is a violation of that basic human right. I can make an argument that denying access to marriage for more than two people violates the constitutional prohibition against laws which restrict the free exercise of religion given the historical reality that certain sects within the Mormon religion and the Islamic religion, not to mention numerous Native American Tribes, have included polygamy within what the religion or the culture allows within its canon and traditions.
This is not a matter of civil rights - marriage has never been a right, it has always been a restricted privilege in our laws, customs and traditions. Saying that one has a fundamental human right to be married to the person of their choosing means that there is a basic human right to marry one's sibling, or their parent or their first cousin if that is what they desire to do that would also have to be allowed. The logic isn't there folks, nor is the history of the law - marriage is, and always has been, a restricted privilege, not a right.
This is a "same sex marriage bill"- read the damn bill- it says that all rights of a traditional marriage would apply to the same sex union. People in Colorado have already voted on this issue- The state would be stomping all over what the people have alraedy voted on just 6 years ago if they let this bill pass.
Yep- Once again PS- you have eloquently defined the issue- better than I could have. My view on this topic mirrors your post. Sorry if I'm not coming across as politically correct - but I never make an effort to be politically correct - it's low on my value list. There are many groups who are just waiting for the abandonment of the "one man one woman" definition of marriage before they spring forward with their "civil rights being violated" argument for all kinds of variations to this bill. As you have pointed out - sharia law, certain sects within the Mormon religion and numerous Native American Tribes can argue that their "rights" are being violated.
It opens up the can of worms as soon as the traditional definition of marriage is trashed.
I'm stickin with what has worked for more than a thousand years.
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How do you think you have any right to tell these people how they can live in a relationship and do you think you have any right to deny them the same legal rights that you currently now have?
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BearMtnHIB wrote:
How do you think you have any right to tell these people how they can live in a relationship and do you think you have any right to deny them the same legal rights that you currently now have?
They have the same exact rights as I do right now under current laws. A heterosexual man can not marry another heterosexual man either- so which right are you talking about? We all have the same rights.
The issues of rights to be included as a legal partner in a will, rights to be listed as a legal partner in a situation where one of the civil union members need hospitalization... etc. can be addressed without a same sex marriage law. In fact the law already provides a remedy for those issues now.
So some insurance allows same sex partners- this bill would force all insurance companies to do it- force all government agencies to allow same sex spouses eligable to spousal benefits- force all public businesses to accept these unions- the impact will be enormous- and eventually force all churches to accept those terms- which are highly objectional to many religious organizations. What about their rights?
Lastly- it forces the public in general to accept homosexual lifestyles as "normal and therefore acceptable". No matter how they try to slice it- their queer. Forcing those who object to these lifestyles for whatever reasons by using the power of the state is wrong- these lifestyles are an extereme minority- and they want the state to tell us it's mainstream.
That's just wrong.
They still execute homosexuals in many perts of the world- most recently in Iran and Iraq.
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As much as I disagree with their decision I think Coloradoans have already decided that they don't support gay marriage or civil unions. So if a couple valiant Dems were filibustering a law legalizing slavery that legislators wanted but the citizens didn't wouldn't you support them?archer wrote: Can you just imagine if this were Democrats making these decisions....the conservatives would be squealing like stuck pigs......but since it's Republicans changing the rules to circumvent not only the will of the majority of the legislators, but of the people, it's quite alright with them.
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BearMtnHIB wrote:
How do you think you have any right to tell these people how they can live in a relationship and do you think you have any right to deny them the same legal rights that you currently now have?
They have the same exact rights as I do right now under current laws.
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