What do you look for in a date/mate/love?

morality, integrity, and no history of failed marriage. And has never "shacked up". This would be IF my wife should die.

Uh, if they didn't have a history of failed marriage they'd be either a 60 year old woman who has never been married or still be married. Are you saying you'd prefer a 60 year old married woman who has never been divorced?

If you're looking for a 60 year old never been married woman, try a convent.