Tis is my favorite place i. The world too LH, but once in a while playing in the sand and surf is fun too as long as I can come back home when I'm done.
VL does actually travel alot I think, and he used to post his pictures so it is probably true. Why you would be in the south in July is a good question though???
And having to go to 7-11 in the morning for coffee and a cinnabun??? Sounds like a cheap motel 6 VL. Don't they have breakfast or coffee in those penthouse suites? LOL
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towermonkey wrote: Why would you think he's lying Viking? Or are you just jealous?
Anyone who has to continually brag about things, (the majority of which are not true) in order to try and belittle others, for reasons which can only be described as a very unhappy and unfulfilling life, is not a person anyone should be jealous of. Narcissists are usually people who are incredibly lonely due to a lifetime of treating others with complete and utter disrepect and thus they find themselves having to play out an imaginary life to try and fill the void created from lack of friends and certainly lack of respect from anyone who is around him. They are also often described as 'The Child That Didn't Emotionally Grow Up'.
Here is a great definition of a Narcissist and thus a great definition of VL......
Another symptom of narcissism is pathological lying. Purposeful lying is narcissistic and is born from a need to manipulate in order to control. This characteristic began at a very early age. The narcissist never matured to the level where he accepted essential emotional truths: lying creates distrust and separation with others. It destroys relationships.
To be honest (and therefore vulnerable) terrifies the narcissist. He fears this will equate to being controlled by others. He needs to uphold lies so people don’t discover the truth of who he really is. The narcissist finds comfort in not being pinned down, and not being accountable. More lies are necessary to cover up a previous lie. The pathological lies become malignant and the high-level narcissist scripting an illusionary life begins to believe his own versions. This is why pathological lying is so hard to detect, and may even pass a polygraph. Additionally the narcissist doesn’t suffer a guilty conscience. He believes he’s entitled to lie. It’s the only way he knows how to operate in a world of ‘me versus you’ without the emotional resources to trust. The tragic thing is: narcissists genuinely believe everyone else thinks and feels exactly the way they do. They don’t trust anyone. The narcissist makes sure he gets you before you can get him.
towermonkey wrote: Why would you think he's lying Viking? Or are you just jealous?
Anyone who has to continually brag about things, (the majority of which are not true) in order to try and belittle others, for reasons which can only be described as a very unhappy and unfulfilling life, is not a person anyone should be jealous of. Narcissists are usually people who are incredibly lonely due to a lifetime of treating others with complete and utter disrepect and thus they find themselves having to play out an imaginary life to try and fill the void created from lack of friends and certainly lack of respect from anyone who is around him. They are also often described as 'The Child That Didn't Emotionally Grow Up'.
Here is a great definition of a Narcissist and thus a great definition of VL......
Another symptom of narcissism is pathological lying. Purposeful lying is narcissistic and is born from a need to manipulate in order to control. This characteristic began at a very early age. The narcissist never matured to the level where he accepted essential emotional truths: lying creates distrust and separation with others. It destroys relationships.
To be honest (and therefore vulnerable) terrifies the narcissist. He fears this will equate to being controlled by others. He needs to uphold lies so people don’t discover the truth of who he really is. The narcissist finds comfort in not being pinned down, and not being accountable. More lies are necessary to cover up a previous lie. The pathological lies become malignant and the high-level narcissist scripting an illusionary life begins to believe his own versions. This is why pathological lying is so hard to detect, and may even pass a polygraph. Additionally the narcissist doesn’t suffer a guilty conscience. He believes he’s entitled to lie. It’s the only way he knows how to operate in a world of ‘me versus you’ without the emotional resources to trust. The tragic thing is: narcissists genuinely believe everyone else thinks and feels exactly the way they do. They don’t trust anyone. The narcissist makes sure he gets you before you can get him.
rofllol :rofl
