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CinnamonGirl wrote: Okay, I know I am getting in the middle of this debate and opening more worms but here is something I never understood about those that are so "okay" with abortion. (***** disclaimer**** Just because I feel this way does not mean I think that outlawing abortion will work. It is too hard to do. )
The abortion debate seems mixed up to me. Those that believe in abortion tend to not believe in intelligent design and disdain god and religion. They generally believe that when we die it is just "over" and there is no after life. Those that tend to believe abortion is killing a person, tend to believe in a god and afterlife. So, I don't understand why those that believe it is just "over" and there is nothing after death would think that killing a fetus means nothing and you can just go on and have another one some other time. I would feel awful knowing I was responsible for just ending a life and that this person did not have a chance to be a person. If you think about it in those terms, you would think the abortion debate would be reversed.
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So here you are equating intelligent design with god and religion, yet you think it should be taught in science class? Interesting. Anyway, to stick to topic, this is a simplistic black/white view of who actually gets abortions - who "believes" in them being available or not has little bearing on the actual matter of who gets them. I, for example, am agnostic, and can't say one way or another whether there is an afterlife or not, but I do not agree with abortion as a method of birth control (albeit, had I been faced with that situation when younger, I likely would've chosen differently). I am, however, in favor of it being legal and widely available to those who choose otherwise as I cannot judge their circumstances based on my own. 42% of women getting abortions are poor - economic factors are a huge deciding factor, and most here agree that welfare isn't optimal, and definitely not for paying more to women just because they have more kids.CinnamonGirl wrote: Okay, I know I am getting in the middle of this debate and opening more worms but here is something I never understood about those that are so "okay" with abortion. (***** disclaimer**** Just because I feel this way does not mean I think that outlawing abortion will work. It is too hard to do. )
The abortion debate seems mixed up to me. Those that believe in abortion tend to not believe in intelligent design and disdain god and religion. They generally believe that when we die it is just "over" and there is no after life. Those that tend to believe abortion is killing a person, tend to believe in a god and afterlife. So, I don't understand why those that believe it is just "over" and there is nothing after death would think that killing a fetus means nothing and you can just go on and have another one some other time. I would feel awful knowing I was responsible for just ending a life and that this person did not have a chance to be a person. If you think about it in those terms, you would think the abortion debate would be reversed.
Reference #38 does not go to a source that discusses religious affiliation, so I think that reference is an error. An older (2008) Guttmacher survey listed 37.3% Protestant, 28.1% Roman Catholic, 7.1% Other, and 27.5% None.What proportion of U.S. women obtaining abortions are religious?
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More than seven in 10 U.S. women obtaining an abortion report a religious affiliation (37% protestant, 28% Catholic and 7% other), and 25% attend religious services at least once a month.[38] The abortion rate for protestant women is 15 per 1,000 women, while Catholic women have a slightly higher rate, 22 per 1,000.[32]
Now, the matter of how often these women who identify with a religion actually attend service regularly, and would be considered deeply spiritual is less than the general population so it could very well be that even though they identify with a religion, they are not very religious, per se, and haven't matured to the point that they are considering the ramifications of their decisions. Regardless, those who get abortions do identify with a religion more so than they don't.*see Table 2
Protestant 47.8%
Roman Catholic 24.8%
Other 10.7%
None 16.7%
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Most likely guilt is the root cause. If I were her parents and "coach" I'd keep a very close eye out for depression.Big Doug wrote: UPDATE: My friend called. She dumped her loser boyfriend after a fight over the weekend. YES!
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Grady wrote: FYI my kids have all done quite well for themselves.
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Big Doug wrote: Whata got to say about that cg!?
You never shoulda opened more worms..
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CinnamonGirl wrote:
Big Doug wrote: Whata got to say about that cg!?
You never shoulda opened more worms..
That was total jibberish to me and stats have nothing to do with this. I was hoping to hear from people who feel what they feel and why they feel that way.
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I do, and my well adjusted grandkids as well. Only one works for a corporation, and he is their in-house legal counsel. The rest are professionals or business owners in their own right. Not to brag but I am pretty proud.Big Doug wrote:
Grady wrote: FYI my kids have all done quite well for themselves.
I take that to mean they made themselves usefull to some corporation? Something they can turn a profit on? I said my kids are happy, thats all I care about- Do ever see your kids Grady?
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