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Science Chic wrote:
:VeryScared: :VeryScared: Batten down the hatches and man the weapons boys!Wily Fox aka Angela wrote: thanks for the kind words, Mummydog. I think the time has come to invade this place and take over. grab your friends and jump in with both feet.
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Sunshine Girl wrote: I think right now they are very embarrassed on how they treated you.
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jmc wrote:
Perfectly said , well maybe not perfectly but I could not agree more.TPP wrote: Mummydog, if you go off topic here you well NOT be on a time out, we just try to stay on topic, yes, am a big offender, but I try to say OFF TOPIC first. Hell, the pc aholes thread became a thread about dudes with good "gams" and circled round to the a-holes again, it's OK.
You don't need to live under the fear installed at pc.
WELCOME to a DIFFERENT MIND-SET (FREEDOM) & ENJOY Yourself!!!!
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Here are a couple of things to dwell on, or not
1. Humans will respond as they are treated. If they are treated as adults and shown that they are trusted as such; they usually will respond as such. But, when a human is treated as a child, unable to think for themselves, then they revolt. This is very apparent in the work place as has been shown through many studies. Most of my career was based upon this basic philosophy. Give people responsibility and trust that they will do the right thing.
2. Perception is Reality. When found in a place of spending a lot of time defending actions that are seen in a negative way by others, I feel that it is simply a case of not seeing things through others eyes. In the case of P*****m moderation, it seems to be more focused on what the mods get out of it, than the posters. A good moderator needs to park their ego at the door and think of the big picture of what they are doing before jumping on a single member for doing something that is not hurting anything.
3. Rules can be good, but guidelines are better. This leaves room to breathe and feel that you are able to think for yourself. Case in point, telling a poster that they can’t place a for sale item in the site’s classifieds simply because it pertains to pets, is a little overreaching. Why not let posters post their classified where they want? By moving it, you are telling the poster, you are in control and they are unable to think for themselves. This circles back around to items 1 and 2.
These things are the foundation of the tension of the moderation at P*****m. This can be a teaching moment or it can be ignored. I am taking my time out to try to help even in the light of this latest incident.
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Wily Fox aka Angela wrote:
[Raven] wrote: "Hey, you sass that hoopy Wily Fox? There's a frood who really knows where her towel is."
we just passed Towel Day, you know
http://towelday.org/
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Yes. I think we should start a group that gets together every year on towel day for some jynnan tonnyx. We would have to bring our towels, of course.
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Becky wrote: I can assure you that they don't believe that they have done anything wrong and I have it on pretty good authority that they believe "the fox" is being less than truthful.
It really is a disturbing mindset.
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